HEAL

‘I CAN’T AFFORD THE TIX’ MIGHT’VE BEEN TRUE, BUT ‘I HATE MY BODY’ WAS TRUER

‘I CAN’T AFFORD THE TIX’ MIGHT’VE BEEN TRUE, BUT ‘I HATE MY BODY’ WAS TRUER

Sometimes, we forget to live our lives. We’re too busy hating who we are… Everyone holds pain deep down – it’s why we go to bed upset, walk down the road and sigh, give up on calling the ones we miss but begrudge. I am […]

3 INTIMATE MOMENTS OF 2017

3 INTIMATE MOMENTS OF 2017

They’re tiny and simple – a candid reminder that lasting joy can be found when you least expect it: 1) ME, POTATOES AND A GARDEN: well, one day last spring I was home alone, feeling lonely and forgotten. So I made some mashed potatoes, went […]

IN EMOTIONAL EATING WE GET LOST

IN EMOTIONAL EATING WE GET LOST

Every time you eat, ask yourself this: WHAT IS THE JOB TO BE DONE (or JTBD)? What job are you trying to get done, by going out to the places your friends rave about, by buying the food you crave, or by getting the drinks […]

TAKING CARE, OF A SOUL IN PAIN

TAKING CARE, OF A SOUL IN PAIN

I have learned a lot throughout the last few years: loving my queer heart, embracing this slender body, healing abandonment trauma… Yet over and over again, I come across days and times when confusion and pain surge high. The more I look into myself, the […]

ROMANTICISING PAIN

ROMANTICISING PAIN

I catch myself dragging me into unease, discomfort, worry and fear. I think about the choices I make, or I let myself feel the next right step to take – and yet, come good or bad, I quite always manage to find my way back into […]

2017: MY PLANS FOR THE FUTURE

2017: MY PLANS FOR THE FUTURE

I am pregnant with possibility, so what does the future hold for me? And what are some of my current intentions? It’s time for a fun post now so enjoy this exposé! 1) Move into a creative existence: I have long suspected big part of my […]

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: STOP WAITING TO BE SAVED, IT DOESN’T WORK!

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: STOP WAITING TO BE SAVED, IT DOESN’T WORK!

I’m here to confess to you the many times I had waited to be saved – how my saviour never came – and how I shall not be expecting external salvage from now on. Let’s explain and expand a bit. What do I mean by waiting/wanting to […]

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: WHEN YOUR CHILD STOPS SPEAKING, BECAUSE OF PROFOUND TRAUMA

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: WHEN YOUR CHILD STOPS SPEAKING, BECAUSE OF PROFOUND TRAUMA

I have recently discovered that Maya Angelou, the renowned poet, singer, and all-around sensational woman, stopped speaking for five (5!) years after having been raped at age seven. And that made me reflect on my very own childhood and the many times I would stop […]

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: HEALING YOUR VENGEFUL INNER CHILD

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: HEALING YOUR VENGEFUL INNER CHILD

These last few days I have had to process a great deal of low-vibration feelings and emotions. But… there’s a blessing to every situation – and the revelation I had was this: heal the vengeful inner child. We are never angry because of what we think we’re […]

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: 3 FAST TECHNIQUES TO BE STRONGER THAN YOUR FEARS

EMOTIONAL MONDAY: 3 FAST TECHNIQUES TO BE STRONGER THAN YOUR FEARS

Healing and growing are like peeling an onion: the deeper you go, the more you’ll cry. So let not this process dismantle you, and just now, surrender the need to understand. Hands up if – whenever something beautiful, loving, and unexpectedly good happens to you, you […]



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